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Is Your Adult Child Always in Crisis?
CBS news calls them "Boomerang Kids," you adults who left the next to make their way in the world, but who are now moving back home (either physically or emotionally) to mom and dad. It can happen when a parent thinks they have graduated from parenting.
But what if it's worse than just an inconvenience? What if the returning adult child brings their bad habits, life choices, and a trunk full of extra baggage that threatens the emotional and financial well being of an otherwise loving parent?
In an era when personal accountability has become more and more scarce, it's often the parents who have spent years enabling their children wh are now suffering. Feelings of guilt, shame, fear, anger, frustration, and the inability to trust our adult children invade our existence. How do these feelings play into the dynamic of not only accepting, but in some cases encouraging negative behavior in adult children? In this landmark book, parents will learn not only to recognize the negative behavior of their adult children, but more important, their own negative responses to it as well. Responses that wll need to be altered before change can occur. You can gain SANITY now!
Yes, adult children are often in their own kind of pain and anguish--yet Setting Boundaries is a book primarily for parents and grandparents. Having experienced first hand the enabling of her own adult child, Allison Bottke speaks out to these parents and grandparents about her own personal journey, identifying and overcoming the lies that kep her and ultimately her son in bondage. Additional real life stories from other parents are woven throughout, with a powerful Foreword by bestselling author and international speaker, Carol Kent.
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Information within SETTING BOUNDARIES WITH YOUR ADULT CHILDREN by Allison Bottke is not intended to take the place of sound professional advice offered by a family counselor or therapist. Neither the author nor the publisher assumes any liability for possible adverse consequences as a result of the information contained in SETTING BOUNDARIES WITH YOUR ADULT CHILDREN.
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If you and/or a loved one is in a crisis situation and you need immediate assistance, please call your local emergency number or the mental health crisis hotline listed in your local phone book. Because we do not operate, supervise, or exercise any control over medical and/or psychological resources or referral services, we make no representations or warranty whatsoever, either expressed or implied, regarding any information or advice provided by the professionals listed in the book Setting Boundaries With Your Adult Children, or referrals listed on this site. In no event shall Allison Bottke or the staff of Allison Bottke Enterprises be liable to you or anyone else for any decision made or action taken in reliance on information provided in the book, Setting Boundaries With Your Adult Children, or on the web site associated with the book or the SANITY Support Group Network.
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